Everyone has a list. Mine includes learning to drift a car, solving a 5×5 Rubik’s cube, and falling in love. Some items are wildly ambitious, others embarrassingly basic. All of them matter to me.

  1. Master the 4×4 and 5×5 Rubik’s cubes
  2. Learn video editing software
  3. Finish The Brothers Karamazov
  4. Become conversational in French and Spanish
  5. Backpack through my favorite European cities
  6. Complete a 10-day Vipassana meditation retreat
  7. Teach a graduate-level class
  8. Fall in love
  9. Earn a PhD
  10. Learn to drive (yes, really)
  11. Become a parent
  12. Learn piano
  13. Apply to Y Combinator
  14. Compete in a hackathon
  15. Host proper dinner parties for friends and family
  16. Tour a chocolate factory and learn the craft
  17. Make pasta from scratch
  18. Give a memorable wedding toast
  19. Log 30,000 hours of exercise
  20. Watch Arsenal play at Emirates Stadium
  21. Attend a World Cup match in person
  22. See John Mayer perform live
  23. Visit Vatican City
  24. Quit social media (and mean it)
  25. Live in a monastery and study monasticism
  26. Learn to drift a car
  27. See Northern Lights in Finland